Single

Hello everyone and welcome to my new blog entry. As some of you know, Valentine’s Day just passed and this special blog entry will be dedicated to those who are single as well as those who have a special someone.

Some teens hate Valentine’s Day. They see it is a pointless day where you give gifts, chocolate, flowers, etc. to your significant other. In my opinion, Valentine’s Day is a beautiful day. You get to spend time with the one you love and it is a day focused on you. I’m the type of person who loves love so my opinion is a little biased, but I do truly believe Valentine’s Day is not a bad day.

For those who are single and/or don’t have someone to spend Valentine’s Day with, you are completely wrong. Valentine’s Day is not just about being with your spouse/partner. You can spend it with family and friends. The day about love should be spent with those who love you the most and vice versa. My family and friends always get me a little something for Valentine’s Day and I do the same for them. Just because you're single doesn’t mean you don’t have time to spend with someone.

For those who are coupled up, congrats on you two getting together. Love is a great thing and I am glad people out there enjoy it. However, don’t let Valentine’s Day get you all whooped over. We should all remember that the day of love is to be spent with the one(s) you love—not get them all kinds of gifts. It is nice to get them some flowers or chocolates, but don’t go to the extreme. They love you for you— not your stuff.

Anyway, Valentine’s Day is a great day, but some people just see it as an excuse to get with someone or into someone. Remember it is the day of Love, not Lust. Don’t spend it with someone knowing that there would be no future between you two. Also, I would like to point out that Valentine’s Day is a day for all people, straight or gay. So if you are attracted to the same sex and you have a partner, don’t be afraid or embarrassed to do something special with them. There is nothing shameful about love.

So that is the end of my entry. I apologize for the random entry. If you want me to post anything please comment below. Thanks for viewing and I hope you have a good week. See you next time.
~Love, KitKat~

It Is Not Worth It.

Hey guys, and welcome to blog entry 15. Today’s blog entry will be a very important topic that has to do with all three of the BPJ (bullying, peer pressure, and judgement).

Suicide is not something that should be taken lightly. It is a growing problem here in the world, especially within teens. With all the stress, work, and expectations it is hard for a person to stay composed. Others times suicide is a result of problems with relationships, such as those with family, friends, and significant others.

One reason for suicide is sexual orientation. People get bullied because of who they like and it is getting boring. A person should have every right to be attracted to whoever they want, whether it is a boy or a girl. Another reason for suicide is family issues such as a parent’s divorce or fighting in the family. You will learn to heal from your parent’s separation and your parents will learn to cope. Nothing lasts forever and soon these negative feelings will go away.

There are multiple reasons for suicide and these reasons can be fixed. Not everything in life is here and now. We need to look at the big things in life and consider about our future. Not to mention all your loved ones will miss you dearly. Even if you think no one in the world cares about your existence, trust me when I say a lot of people will be affected.

So if you have suicidal problems see a counselor or talk to a friend/family member. You have a purpose in the world and you barely lived life. Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

And that is the end of this blog entry. I hoped you enjoyed it and please take what I have to say seriously. Have a nice week and I’ll see you next time with blog entry 16.

~Love, Kitkat~

We are all Different

Hello Guys, and welcome to blog entry #14. Sorry for the delay so as a reward/apology to all my viewers and followers, I will be writing an extra-long entry. This entry is dedicated to the things that make us special and unique.

We are all different. Whether it comes from our appearance or personality, we all have something that makes us special. Some of us don’t embrace these unique qualities while others fully accept them. For example, I am said to eat like a squirrel. If I have a sandwich, I’ll grab it with both hands, put it close to my face, and take little nips of it until I finish. I don’t do it on purpose. To tell you the truth I don’t even realize I do it half the time until one of my friends points it out. Some of you might think this is funny and you can laugh all you want because I love that about me. I don’t care what people have to say about this little “flaw” I have. I will just laugh and continue eating my sandwich.

You guys might be thinking now well I have bigger flaws or That is not even that bad. Well that is the same thing I am going to say to you. No matter how imperfect you think you are or how enormous your flaws are, if you learn to embrace these things about you, no one will care about them. Whether you are quiet, loud, tall, short, fat or skinny, people will learn sooner or later to accept you for who you are. Even if you are Mr. or Mrs. Perfect, everyone around you will love you for you.

Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. If you are blunt, stay blunt. If you are silly, stay silly If you drive your friends crazy with your edgy jokes, continue being inappropriate. No one should judge or question you for being you. Your personality, whether it is being calm and collected or weird and different, makes you special. Your appearance, whether it is having a big beauty mark on your cheek or having an extra finger, makes you unique. There is only one you in the whole wide world. We don’t need another typical sassy cheerleader, flirty jock, or scary goth (no offence to all cheerleaders, jocks, and goths). We don’t need another stereotype student in the world. Maybe there can be a flirty goth or sassy jock. Perhaps the goth can be a cheerleader.

I don’t know how else to put it. Just be you and be different. Accept who you are because that’s the person your friends and family have come to love. Every flaw is a beauty, every mistake is a turning point, and every embarrassing moment is a perfect memory.

Hope you enjoyed my blog everybody. Tune in next week for blog #15. Have a fantastic week and appreciate who you are.

~Love, Kitkat~